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Chapter 1442

    "Ha ha, that''s true. It seems that I have to thank Minister Sun. After this drink, I''ll give Minister Sun another drink." Lei Zheng said.


    Listen to this, it seems that today is sun dongkai''s treat. Guan Yunfei invited Lei Zheng and his wife, not sun dongkai''s. it seems that the appearance of Lei Zheng in today''s wine shop has nothing to do with sun dongkai.


    "Secretary Lei doesn''t dare to say that. How dare I ask leaders to toast me? I should respect Secretary Lei later..." Sun dongkai''s humble voice came.


    Lei Zheng laughed and said to Guan Yunfei, "minister Guan, I envy you very much..."


    "What do you admire me for?" Guan Yunfei said.


    "I envy you for having a good deputy. Dongkai is very capable. The Secretary and vice minister of the media group have made the work of the group vivid and colorful, and the work of the Ministry has been done in good order, which has relieved a lot of pressure on you..." Lei Zheng said.


    "It seems that Secretary Lei is very concerned and familiar with dongkai''s work..." Guan Yunfei said with a smile.


    "Oh This... " Lei Zheng was slightly stunned and then laughed: "it''s not qualified to care about me. It''s your vice minister. It''s not my turn to care. As for understanding and familiarity, I can''t compare with you. I just heard that Minister Guan, don''t think too much... "


    Guan Yunfei laughed: "ha ha, I''m just joking. Why should Secretary Lei be so thoughtful Come on, let''s drink. "


    After drinking this glass of wine, Lei Zheng raised his glass again and turned his face: "minister dongkai, Secretary sun, here, I''d like to propose a toast to you. We don''t have many chances to drink together. Today, we are in the light of minister Guan. We have a chance to have a drink with you."


    "Secretary Lei is too modest. You are the leader. How dare you give me a toast or I''ll give Secretary Lei a toast." Sun dongkai''s voice.


    Guan Yunfei smiles quietly, then glances at the door


    I quickly shrunk back, and then went to the bathroom


    After going to the bathroom, I didn''t dare to stay and went downstairs.


    After coming back, Qin Lu was sitting in a daze in her seat. Seeing me coming back, she said, "it takes so long to go to the toilet. I thought you couldn''t get out of it."


    I laughed and felt that it was not suitable to stay here for a long time. So I ordered a meal. After dinner with Qin Lu, I broke up and left on the pretext of something else.


    I have nothing to do, so I go for a walk by the sea.


    In the old place, I saw Lao Li, facing the sea and concentrating on Tai Chi.


    Not far from the road, there was a long version of the luxury bulletproof car. Two young men in suits and sunglasses were strolling around the car.


    When they saw me coming, their faces were expressionless and they were still standing there.


    They should have known me and knew that I was Lao Li''s friend, so they didn''t stop me from approaching Lao Li.


    I slowly approached Lao Li and stood behind him.


    Lao Li didn''t seem to be aware of my coming. He still took his Tai Chi seriously.


    I stood quietly watching.


    The air by the sea was fresh, bringing a slightly salty sea breeze.


    It''s quiet, and I''m quiet.


    Half a day later, Lao Li finally finished Taiji. His hands slowly dropped down and he stood still without looking back.


    "Here comes my son." Lao Li said.


    "How do you know?" I said.


    Lao Li turned around and gave me a smile: "because I''m your father."


    I grin.


    Lao Li went to the stone bench and sat down. I went to sit next to him and watched the sea together.


    "I''ve been very busy these days." Lao Li said.


    "Not bad." I said.


    "Busy with the Sino Korean cultural exchange meeting?" Lao Li said.


    "Yes, I''ll help you. It''s over." I said.


    "Was that meeting fun?" Lao Li said.


    "What''s fun? What is not fun? " I said.


    "You said Lao Li asked me.


    I grinned again, and then said, "Qiutong and I are responsible for the reception of a Korean media group. We don''t have much time to play. However, we have become good friends with the president of that media group, and we have gained something."


    "Oh..." Lao Li nodded: "busy finished, nothing, think of my father?"


    I said: "I come here for a walk, I don''t know you are here too!"


    "That is to say, you didn''t come to see me specially." Lao Li''s voice was a little angry.


    I couldn''t help laughing: "don''t be so childish, OK? I''m old and big. What are you pretending to be... "


    "Smelly boy, I told you to say that to me --" Lao Li raised his hand to shine on my head, but I didn''t dodge. He laughed.


    "Are you feeling better these days?" Lao Li said.


    "What do you say?" As soon as Lao Li said this, I could not help getting upset again."Because of Haizhu." Lao Li said.


    "What do you say?" I didn''t say it very well.


    "I said..." Lao Li said.


    I looked at Lao Li: "I know you still ask!"


    "What''s the matter? I can''t ask? " Lao Li said.


    "Now I want to ask. Why don''t you ask for so many days? I thought you didn''t remember that at all I said.


    "What? Are you in the mood Lao Li said.


    "Yes, it''s emotional Why do you keep silent these days? Don''t even say a word of comfort to me? " I said.


    "I think you are a child." Lao Li said: "such a big man, still a man, do you need my comfort so much?"


    I didn''t say a word.


    "These days, I deliberately ignore you." Lao Li said.


    "Why?" I said.


    "Just because I don''t want you to rely on me, sooner or later I will die, and you will live well when I die. You should learn to support the situation alone, learn to adjust your mind, learn to endure loneliness and pain alone, and learn to comfort yourself I don''t want to wait for you to have the feeling of collapsing when I die. I hope that when I leave this world, I am dispensable to you. " Lao Li said.


    "It''s impossible. You are very important to me at any time. Even if I don''t rely on you to deal with things, and even if I don''t rely on you to do things, I can''t accept that you leave me personally." I said.


    "Desire is good, but the laws of nature are inviolable." Lao Li calmly laughed: "life, aging, illness and death is an irreversible law. Everyone will have that day, and I am no exception. This is a very normal thing. We should treat it with a calm attitude."


    I didn''t speak, and suddenly I felt very sad.


    "I know that you are in a bad mood these days. You are a little manic and irritable. I deliberately ignore you. I want you to learn to be calm and calm. The key to a person''s mentality is to rely on yourself to adjust it. Only when you have a strong mind for a long time can you have a strong spiritual world and a strong executive world."


    Lao Li then said: "in a person''s life, no one can be without disasters and setbacks. Disasters are opportunities to achieve a strong man. Setbacks are the way to create an able man. In the face of disasters and setbacks, madness is useless, and manic is useless. Impulse is the devil. The impulse under manic can only destroy yourself If you want to learn to keep calm and calm at any time, you must cultivate your mind Mind cultivation is a life course you must learn Only by cultivating one''s mind can one cultivate one''s nature. "


    I look at Lao Li.


    "A great mind can hold the things in the world, a false mind can receive the goodness of the world, a calm mind can discuss the things in the world, a latent mind can observe the principles of the world, and a firm mind can respond to the changes in the world. We should be open-minded and accept the world''s things; be modest and prudent, accept the world''s benevolence and goodness; be calm and analyze the world''s things; devote ourselves to research and look at the world''s things; firm our faith and deal with the world''s changes. "


    Looking at the sea, Lao Li said slowly, "a person''s life is full of ups and downs, splendor and gloom. In the journey of hard and happy life, it is inevitable not to fall, but to learn to move forward in adversity; it is inevitable not to fail, but to know how to accept; it is inevitable not to be misunderstood, but to know how to let go. When you put down your frustration, grievance, anger and discomfort, you will get a new feeling and a relaxed pleasure at the moment when you discard them.


    "If each of us can face others and life with tolerance and straightness, and with an open mind and benevolence, then we will have a broad space of psychological life, and we will be able to live in peace and be proud of the world no matter what the situation is. The state is created by the mind, and it''s natural to step back. "


    "You mean I''ll learn to endure, even if someone else takes a shit on my neck?" I said discontentedly.


    "You mean that you don''t really understand what I just said In life, what should be endured must be endured. Of course, when there is no need to endure, there is no need to endure When to bear and when not to bear is a matter of degree. The secret of cultivating one''s mind is that when you really master the essence of cultivating one''s mind, you will know when to bear and when not to bear. " Lao Li said.


    Lao Li''s words made me a little confused, I said: "you say, how should a person cultivate his mind?"


    Lao Li said: "to know how to cultivate one''s mind, first of all, you should put aside your current demons and worries. Don''t be blinded by hatred. You should learn to look at the gains and losses of the present with a broad vision and broad mind We should treat this matter from the perspective of the whole life. "


    I couldn''t help nodding.


    "So Don''t always worry about tomorrow, and don''t always hate what happened yesterday, and focus on what you want to do today. Because anger, hatred, regret, regret, guilt and sadness can''t change the past, they can only make it difficult for the present to go on We can''t do anything about what will happen tomorrow. It''s no use thinking about it. It''s no use worrying about it. It''s no use worrying about it. Remember that you live today, not tomorrowLao Li continued: "also, we should stop guessing and face reality. Many psychological disputes and obstacles are often caused by the assumption that they have no actual basis. You can even pause and feel more. Feeling, as the basis of thinking, is more important than thinking itself. There is no way to think without feeling. Feeling can adjust and enrich your thinking.


    "To learn to accept unhappy emotions, happiness and unhappiness are relative and can be transformed into each other. Therefore, be prepared to accept unhappiness. If a person is always happy and excited all the year round, it''s abnormal


    I listened attentively to Lao Li''s words.
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