Wang Tianming turned to Tianxing and said, "before that, I really didn''t expect anyone to live like this. In the past, I contacted people from the middle and upper classes of the society. They had received good education and had a lot of social resources to achieve what they wanted to do.


    For example, my cousin, an undergraduate from Peking University, went to one of the best universities in the world to study in the UK this year. In my opinion, it should be a great honor to graduate from Peking University, and it is worth mentioning. However, unless she is asked, she usually doesn''t mention where she graduated, and sometimes she doesn''t even know how to say it.


    Many people are curious and ask her why she doesn''t say it. It''s a sign of you. It''s also an endorsement.


    But she said, I''m more willing to let others take off the signboard to get to know me, focusing on what I''m doing rather than where I come from. So are my other classmates from Peking University.


    What did she do to break away from Peking University? During my study, I applied for exchange opportunities at Harvard and Cambridge, went to Canada for summer programs, went to Taiwan for exchange, graduated and went to Hebei to teach for half a year, got an Australian visa and went to Australia to circle the island for two months, until last month I completed the circle and went to Britain.


    Everyone said you are great. She said that the people around her are better. They have more experience than me. I have to work harder.


    My cousin graduated from Peking University with a master''s degree. He is open-minded and intelligent. He learns everything very quickly. After work, he studies programming and cars. He never thinks that graduation from Peking University should be like this. As long as he likes, he tries his best to try and study. He doesn''t feel that the strange eyes of people around him have any influence on him.


    He''s 367 years old, driving a Chery car, and doesn''t wear a famous brand. But do you think he''s anxious, too? But what worries him is not the house and car that ordinary people worry about, but how to realize more self in their limited life.


    Therefore, the people who put this hat on them are all people outside Peking University. For themselves, famous schools are only achievements they have made at a certain point in their life, and should not be regarded as a restriction to guide their future life.


    For them, famous schools give them more opportunities to contact the wider world and the courage to say no to many things. They have the right to choose any kind of life. You may not understand it, but they don''t need your understanding.


    Because you may not understand it at all. This choice, for others, may put down what they had before and experience a different life. Most of us, however, haven''t even "picked up" yet.


    A group of people who have not yet "picked up" look at people who choose to "put down". It''s natural that they can''t understand. Just as you say that apples are so delicious, why don''t you eat them? He said I don''t want to eat, I eat a lot, I want to eat oranges.


    This feeling, you may one day eat apple to eat vomit to experience, before that, you will still feel Apple delicious.


    The same is delivery, people in famous schools will have so much experience, those more profound feelings, the observation of details, the understanding of the industry, the perception of life. So even if we are delivering takeout like everyone else, some people are just delivering takeout, but some people may get new inspiration in life. This is the difference between people.


    Wang Tianming also asked his cousin what he thought of it? My cousin''s answer is that you can''t understand before you reach that level.


    When you get to that level, you will naturally understand that different people have the right to choose, just limited choices, and they just create opportunities for themselves to choose up, down, left and right.


    Similarly, cousins can also choose up and down, but ordinary people may not be able to choose "Peking University" like her. This is probably the biggest difference between cousins.


    It is my cousin''s greatest experience to create more choices for myself, so that no matter what kind of living conditions he is in, he will not survive.


    Your lower limit may be someone else''s paradise. There is a migrant worker named kugen. The reason why he has this name is not because he has a good education and loves English. On the contrary, kugen is just a young migrant worker from a poor area who can''t even recite the basic 26 letters.


    Kugen only cries kugen because he chats with his mobile phone whenever he has free time. According to him, we in the countryside have never seen this thing before. It''s not expensive to send messages with the function machine. China!


    Over time, he was called kugen. My cousin''s first encounter was due to the result of a year-end salary claim in a certain Bureau. As a representative of the management, my cousin came to register and pay. A teenager who killed Matt said timidly to his cousin: boss, I dare not send so much cash to him. Can you give me cash instead?


    In the scene of a slight confrontation between the two sides, suddenly came such a scene. My cousin remembered the boy who killed Matt. Of course, he also remembered his cousin, because he didn''t give him cash, so he gave him a card.


    Good bye to kugen. Two years later, he is still working in that enterprise. They often meet at the breakfast stall to buy steamed buns together. Kugen is still growing. He eats more than his cousin can eat. He soon gets to know each other. Kugen saw his cousin from a long distance, so he called brother Wei.


    Kugen''s parents worked as migrant workers in an inland asbestos enterprise, so his father got pneumoconiosis early.


    Pneumoconiosis, as suffering from a super long-term cancer, slowly can not get breathing. At the beginning, the mine was also responsible for medical expenses, but the boss kicked off the kugen family on the pretext of no labor contract.


    Father soon went, leaving kugen, sister and mother. The only life experience that my father could give kugen before he died was to go to the coastal areas, where it is said to be guaranteed to work. Oh, by the way, there are about 5000 yuan left, which is saved by the family.


    So kugen came here. Kugen said that coming here is like going to heaven. There are more than 2500 yuan a month. There is no risk in his work. Kugen asked his cousin how much money he could have every month?


    My cousin thinks that this child is stupid. He is the capital of the three taboos in the workplace. My cousin said not much about his income: 5, 6 thousand.


    "Emma, I''ve caught up with half a college student. I''m going to tell my mother that my salary is higher than half a college student. How can you spend more than 5000 months? Brother Wei, you can do it! No wonder you can keep it on.


    Cousin said, I am a quasi graduate student, forget it, you do not understand, you hurry to work. I thought to myself, this is not really a fool.


    Later, my cousin heard kugen''s foreman say that kugen sent home about 1500 yuan a month. Cousin no longer dare to make fun of kugen.