Qiu Tong laughed: "little sister, you are so lovely I combine my own experience with you to say, younger sister, as a boss, never compare skills with subordinates, because subordinates are definitely better than you; if they are not better than you, it means that you have hired the wrong person So, what do you want to compare with employees? In my opinion, it''s better than vision, standing higher and looking far; it''s better than mind, the mind of the boss is aggrieved, you have to be able to tolerate others; it''s better than strength, the ability of the boss to resist failure than the staff In short, the quality of an excellent boss is vision, mind and strength. "


    Haizhu nodded: "sister Qiu, what you said is very good."


    After listening to Qiu Tong''s words, I can''t help but benefit a lot.


    Qiu Tong continued: "as a boss, you should always be aware of your own advantages. Everyone has natural advantages. The type and quantity of advantages a person has is not important. The most important thing is whether you know what your advantages are, so as to make full use of your strengths and avoid weaknesses. If you can develop your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, take advantage of the situation, and give full play to your advantages, you will get twice the result with half the effort, like a fish in water; on the contrary, if you choose to go against your hobbies, interests, and specialties, you will get twice the result with half the effort, and suffer losses everywhere. "


    Haizhu nodded: "well Sister Qiu, what''s the secret of your success? "


    Qiu Tong laughs: "silly sister, where can I be successful? I''m a part-time worker in a half business and half enterprise management unit within the system. What kind of success can I be It''s just muddling along. "


    "Sister Qiu, don''t say that. I really think you are a successful person. You are such a big company with more than 1000 people. You are well managed and your performance is booming. Although you are not rich, you are a successful person from another aspect." Haizhu seriously said: "sister Qiu, don''t play tricks on my younger sister. Talk about it and teach me some experience."


    Qiu Tong thought for a moment and said, "I''ll learn from the mode of Yike''s lecture and tell you a story."


    "Hee hee Good Haizhu said.


    Qiutong said: "a weasel wants to fight a lion, and the lion resolutely refuses. The weasel said, are you afraid? The lion said, "if I promise you, you will get the honor of competing with the lion. As for me, all animals will laugh at me for fighting with the weasel."


    Haizhu looked at Qiutong: "well, what does this story tell?"


    "Don''t be disturbed by unimportant people and things, because the secret of success is to hold on to the goal, not to waste time on trivial matters." Qiu Tong said.


    "Ha ha, good. I''ve learned something new." Haizhu smiles happily.


    "Of course, the so-called success is relative," Qiu Tong said. "For everyone, the definition of success is different. Real success does not come from the recognition and evaluation of others, but from the quiet and peaceful state of mind brought by self satisfaction. If you try your best to improve your current situation within the scope of your ability, this is your greatest success. God endows everyone with different levels of body and intelligence. As long as we do our best and try our best to give full play to the energy of life, the result will no longer matter. "


    Autumn Tong this words said I went in the heart, I couldn''t help nodding.


    Qiu Tong looked at Haizhu again: "younger sister, you are starting a business now. The road of starting a business is not so smooth. Not only is it not smooth, there will even be setbacks and tribulations. You should be prepared for this."


    Haizhu said, "well Thanks to my brother''s help, otherwise, I don''t know how many times I have to cry. "


    I said, "even without me, you can''t cry What are you crying for? Crying can only please your competitors Zhu, remember, it''s no use crying when starting a business. Entrepreneurs have no way out. The biggest failure is to give up. Today is cruel, tomorrow is more cruel, the day after tomorrow is beautiful. Most people will die tomorrow night without seeing the sun the day after tomorrow. Entrepreneurs should know how to warm the left hand and the right hand, and appreciate the pain as happiness, so as to achieve success. "


    Haizhu spat out her tongue at me: "I know."


    I said: "Zhu, you have to develop your own independence, remember, everything depends on yourself, to change the fate depends on yourself. All things need persistence, all things need patience, all things need to pay, all things need to try. There is no natural strong man in the world. The strong man is tempered. If a person wants to make a difference, he must compete with and surpass his opponent. If you compete with the weak, you have a good chance of winning, but it''s hard to be the strong. Only by competing with the strong can we continuously expand our living space and become the real strong Our travel companies are not afraid to compete with any other travel companies. The more they compete with strong players, the more they will have the pleasure of defeating their competitors. "


    Haizhu nodded: "well..."


    Qiu Tong also nodded: "Yi Ke, this is very good."


    We had a good chat while eating.


    A happy dinner is over, Haizhu and I go back.


    On the way back, Haizhu said, "brother, you said that Qiutong helped us so much today. I always feel sorry if I don''t give her back."


    I said: "Qiutong didn''t say it today. She helped us because of her friendship with your sister. She doesn''t need to repay us.""However, I always feel that I can''t put it down. I always feel that I owe her something. I don''t want to owe people." Haizhu said.


    I drive the car, night, can''t see Haizhu look.


    I pondered and said: "a Zhu, I think Qiu Tong treats you as his own sister, but you don''t think so In your subconscious mind, you don''t treat Qiutong as your sister. You always feel that you need to repay her. You always feel that there is no free lunch in the world. "


    Haizhu was silent and did not speak.


    I said: "ah Zhu, you know, the most precious things in the world are free For example, sunshine, air, love, family, friendship, dreams and beliefs are free So many beautiful things are free, the creator has already given the most precious everything to each of us for free! In Qiu Tong''s eyes, the most precious friendship and affection between her and you are free, but you have to mark a price Do you find it interesting? "


    Haizhu kept silent and lowered her head.


    I stopped talking and kept driving.


    For a while, Haizhu raised her head, did not look at me, looked ahead, looked at the bright neon of the city in the night


    "Brother, let me ask you a question." Haizhu said softly.


    "Well..."


    "You said Qiu Tong and I, who is more beautiful? " Haizhu said.


    "This --" Haizhu''s sudden question baffled me. For a moment, I didn''t know how to answer it.


    "You are all beautiful," I said after a while.


    "Ha ha Brother, you''re lying. " Haizhu said with a faint smile: "in fact, I feel silly. I shouldn''t have asked you this question In fact, I clearly know that no one can match Qiu Tong''s beauty. Among all the women I have met, including myself, there is never one more beautiful than her When I ask this question, it''s really hard for you. I''m really out of my depth. "


    Haizhu''s voice is lonely, sad, bitter and lost.


    I took a deep breath and said slowly, "Zhu, do you know what a really beautiful woman is?"


    Haizhu turned to look at me: "there are countless answers to this topic, but I want to hear from you --"


    I said: "in my opinion, a truly beautiful woman is not a youthful face, but a blooming heart; not a beautiful dress, but an inner confidence; not a dance in front of the stage, but a persistence behind the scenes; not a superficial flattery, but an inner confidence It is not the vassal of matter, but the light of knowledge. "


    Then, I added: "life is wonderful because of pursuit, life is beautiful because of strength!"


    Haizhu didn''t speak. I turned to see Haizhu. Under the flashing light at night, she looked a little gloomy and meditative


    On the way back to the dormitory, we didn''t talk any more.


    The next day, there were a lot of things in the company. I was busy until 4 p.m.


    After I was busy, I drove directly to Jinshitan to find Li Shun. I don''t know what kind of decision this guy made in the end.


    Yesterday I had a talk with Li Shun. I don''t think that he will stop his revenge, but he will not go south recklessly. He is a man with rich experience in the world. As long as he calms down a little, he will know what the consequences will be? He will not be so stupid.


    Since he won''t go south, what should he do? I want to hear his ideas.


    In fact, I had an idea in my mind yesterday, but I can''t take the initiative to say it. Otherwise, according to Li Shun''s suspicious character, it will backfire.


    I want to hear Li Shun say his new plan face to face and see if he and I conspire!


    I hope we can think of going together!


    I think Li Shun should be waiting for me at the moment.


    Unexpectedly, when I arrived at the yujiale hotel in the fishing village, I was surprised to find that Li Shun was gone!


    When I entered the courtyard, the door was open, the landlord''s elder sister and elder brother were not there, and there was no one in the courtyard.


    I went up to Li Shun''s room on the second floor. The door was open and the room was clean. There was no one. Li Shun was not there, and Li Shun''s luggage was not there.


    I called a few times, no one agreed, the yard was empty.


    My heart a tight, people? What about Li Shun? Where is the luggage? What about the landlord''s elder brother and elder sister?


    I rushed down from the second floor and walked around the yard. There was no one.


    I went outside the yard and looked around. It was quiet all around. In the distance, an old man was sitting on the stone at the door weaving a fishing net. Two dogs were chasing and playing. There was no sign of any accident.


    Just in a daze, a voice came from behind: "big brother, you''re here."


    I am busy looking back. It''s the landlord''s elder sister with the garbage can in her hand. It seems that I just went to take out the garbage.


    "Hello, elder sister. Where''s my friend?" I looked eagerly at the elder sister.


    The elder sister warmly invited me in and said, "your friend left this morning.""Oh be gone? Are you going alone or with him? " I''m worried that Li Shun was kidnapped.