Cao Li said triumphantly: "in fact, I didn''t study this very much. It was recently taught to me by a best friend Listen carefully, there is some truth


    Ji Shu Ji seems to be in some interest at this time, looking at Cao Li: "tell me."


    Cao Li said, "I said to remind you Check yourself to see if you are right. "


    Everyone laughed, but most of them laughed a little abnormal.


    Cao Li then began to say: "when a man derails, he will have some abnormal behaviors. For example, he starts to exercise, especially jogging. You think he starts to exercise for the sake of physical exercise, and jogging. But don''t relax your vigilance. He may derail on the pretext of jogging. Who can guarantee that he is a good athlete during this long period of jogging Didn''t you run to another woman''s house?


    "In addition, this man is no longer intimate with you or requires less intimacy. It seems that people who cheat on you are a little bit addicted to cleanliness and are no longer willing to touch your body. Part of the reason is that he is tired of you, another reason is that he feels guilty for you and is afraid to show his feet when he is in love, and part of the reason is that he has worked hard in his lover''s bed outside and has no time to deal with you when he gets home. He often falls asleep and says that his work is too tired and the pressure is too great.


    "Then he began to pay attention to his diet, or began to lose weight. Men usually don''t pay too much attention to their image. Maybe they don''t care if their clothes are a little dirty, or they don''t pay attention if their socks are not well turned, or they don''t worry if their shoes are not cleaned But the man in the derailment is not like this, they have to abandon a little flaw, because they want to show their best side to the lover, he wants to let people find his good, the image represents the first impression, he will pay close attention to.


    "The fourth point is that when the mobile phone rings at home, he will be nervous. When he answers the phone, he will try his best to speak in a low voice. This is because when the relationship between lovers is confirmed, the man will start to worry, worried that his wife will find out, so he will choose to dodge, for fear of being discovered by you. The mobile phone is not only a tool to convey information, but also a grenade that can be found and detonated at any time. "


    We listen carefully, a few men''s faces slightly unnatural.


    Qiu Tong then stood up and went out on the excuse of going to the bathroom.


    Cao Li glanced at Qiu Tong and continued: "another thing is that he often finds excuses to work overtime, especially on weekends. A man who has an affair has to spend time with his lover outside of work to appreciate the enchantment and beauty of Wenxiang nephrite. Naturally, he can''t go home on time to be with his wife. Of course, the wife will call, send text messages, and ask why the man doesn''t go home so late and who he is with. Men usually say "overtime"


    "The sixth point is the mysterious disappearance of a business trip. When he is on a business trip, he doesn''t tell you his itinerary, flight or hotel information. When you ask him where he''s going and when he''s coming back, he yells at you and he says you can''t get in touch with him at all. The best time to date a lover is to go on a business trip and play mysterious disappearance, so that he can stay away without explanation.


    "What''s more, he never discusses third party topics with his own women. If he sees a TV series about Xiao San, he immediately changes channels, which fully shows that he is guilty. If his wife wants to discuss the topic of Xiao San with him, he will definitely avoid cheating, because he pokes at the pain of the man. Generally speaking, women don''t like Xiao San, but because a man already has a third party, he won''t be rejected in his heart. Therefore, men will be afraid to show their feet in the discussion of the topic and let women see through


    "The last and most important thing is the sudden increase of expenses. After cheating, it is necessary to have candlelight dinner, send roses and drink coffee in order to please a man. Only in this way can a man show his gentlemanly demeanor and romance. What is romance? Is to waste the number on the credit card with a girl, let it be less changeable. This is a required course for men in the love field. In the past, the money given generously to his wife will still be given to her even now, but how unwilling is there in his heart? Only he knows. If a man doesn''t have extra income, he usually doesn''t give all his salary to his wife under various pretexts; if he has extra income, he won''t be as stupid as before and give all his money to his wife. Some men even give up smoking and drinking. "


    Cao Li said after laughing: "everyone, self-examination, there are wood on the number of it?"


    Ji Shuji smiles and shakes his head slightly: "this analysis is in place."


    The Newspaper Association and others looked embarrassed, but they all laughed in disguise: "how can we get on the number? We are not cheating people."


    Cao Li continued to smile: "if you have something to change, if you have nothing to encourage. All the leaders are good comrades. What I''m talking about is just a wake-up call for you. In case of derailment in the future, we should make preparations in advance according to these rules..."


    At this time, Qiu Tong came back and sat there, smiling at everyone and not talking.


    An aide of the newspaper association seems to want to fight back against Cao Li, saying: "what general manager Cao just said is the performance of men after cheating. I don''t deny that there is some truth, but does general manager Cao know what the performance of women after cheating?"


    Cao Li was slightly stunned, and then said: "it seems that this leader has studied the performance of women after cheating? Let''s talk about it. ""Good." He then began to say: "in recent years, women''s extramarital affairs are more and more likely to derail. If it''s said that men have taken care of their lovers and the third child has become rampant, it''s no longer strange for women to derail! Especially in Shenzhen, after a survey conducted by a non-governmental organization, it is concluded that the proportion of wives cheating in marriage is as high as 40%! To paraphrase an old saying: if you want to be unknown, unless you don''t do it yourself, a man''s infidelity will reveal many details in his life, and a red apricot''s infidelity will also have some obvious changes As long as it''s a man with a heart, it''s not hard to see. "


    Cao Li''s expression is slightly unnatural. Qiutong''s expression suddenly looks ugly. She looks down at the table.


    I seem to understand the reason why Qiutong''s expression changed, but I don''t seem to understand it.


    Cao Li''s expression is unnatural. Of course, I understand. She often derails. She always treats derailment as a family meal.


    The person from the Newspaper Association continued: "first of all, there is a great increase in outdoor activities, and there are always different reasons. A wife, who was keen on housework, suddenly became neglectful of housework. She often went out in a hurry and said that she would not go home for dinner tonight. It was like a bitter enemy who had been in a tight relationship all of a sudden. These two people either had ulterior motives or concealed murders. The change of habits revealed their tail.


    "This is actually one of the most important details of habit change. Women''s stratagems are often very simple. You can''t marry a woman who is resourceful and resourceful, such as Bong girl. So once a wife who doesn''t like social activities starts to go to various occasions, such as morning running or bar parties, it can''t be said that his wife''s personality changes from introverted to extroverted It''s not a good idea, but an excuse. A woman who says that she doesn''t like oranges will peel off the skin of oranges one day, which means that someone has begun to be jealous, which means that the green hat is not far away from you. "


    Cao Li not only listened attentively, but also listened attentively. I don''t know what everyone was thinking.


    He looked at everyone and continued, "and then she suddenly became preoccupied, tranced, moody, and often inexplicably angry. A wife who has changed her mind and is looking for a new lover, no matter how she disguises and makes false appearances to confuse your judgment, as long as you pay attention to the observation, it is not difficult to find the clues of her change of heart.


    "Because at this time, she will suddenly become more moody, more critical and merciless to you than before. No matter how good you are to her as a husband, she will always pick on you and often give you inexplicable fire. This kind of fire can easily hurt innocent children. Every time I talk with my husband, I always say, look, I was often chased at that time. If you were half a step late, I might marry that man, or you are blessed


    "But if a wife who has an affair asks her what she used to say to her husband, she will become very impatient, just like Daji who is possessed by Fox spirits. Only when it comes to menopause, women will be absent-minded. Today, they forget to buy their children''s milk powder. Tomorrow, they will put the washing clothes in the washing machine. There will be no movement. When they are idle, they will be dazed and in a trance. It seems that they have a lot of worries. But she will not take the initiative to tell her man what''s wrong, but ponder silently.


    "At this time, when a man asks her if she is sick or not, she doesn''t pretend that she doesn''t know how to call her and talk to her. Instead, she turns around and smiles at her man and says," honey, I''m ok. Go to sleep first, eh. "


    Hearing this, I couldn''t help laughing.


    Qiutong seemed to want to laugh, but she didn''t.


    Cao Li glared at me, looked at the man and said, "go on with your talk -"


    Cao Li seemed to be very interested in listening to this, and her mood seemed to be a little anxious.


    He continued: "for a period of time, she would often inquire about her husband''s work and rest time, and arrange appointments when she seemed concerned. It''s easy to understand this point. The wife who used to go home on time suddenly becomes very late or leaves home too early. She also likes to inquire about her man''s work and rest time, how to go on business, work overtime and go home. It seems that she is concerned about men''s going out. She is afraid that men will have accidents and worry about men. In fact, sometimes she is afraid that her man will find out his secret Close and ready.


    "What''s more, some couples can forget their love birthdays and wedding anniversaries when they were young, and the concept of time that they clearly remember in their minds has begun to shrink, which means that the wife''s feelings and psychology are in trouble Then there is the explosion of mobile phone spending over a period of time, and it will maintain a certain proportion of the growth rate every month.


    "Whether it''s men or women, after they have an affair, they can cover up some of their superficial behaviors, but they can''t do it anyway. They don''t need to send text messages to call to tell their heart. This point, especially in the women out of the wall after the performance is particularly prominent. Therefore, the call of an adulterer is often abnormal. Women are no exception. When they tell lies, they make sure that their faces are not red, their necks are not thick, they are out of breath, and they are as lifelike as if they are OK. "


    Hearing this, Cao Li couldn''t help feeling out her mobile phone and looking at it.


    Secretary Ji looks at Cao Li''s action and smiles a little, with a deep smile.


    "Anything else?" Cao Li put away her cell phone and asked again."What''s more, women''s consumption has increased greatly. In particular, the expenses for clothing and cosmetics account for a large proportion. People rely on clothes and saddles. Women are born to love beauty, while cheating women pay more attention to their own image. When they meet other men they like in their marriage, they will pay more attention to their own dress. Obviously, they are all aunts, and she has to dress up as a little girl in her twenties!


    "After a woman has an affair, her spending will increase greatly. Most of the money is spent on buying a series of private cosmetics to ensure her youth and attract men. Sometimes, he will show his true love to the man he likes, such as a suit. A man will spend money to keep his mistress, and so will a woman. So he secretly saved up private money and concealed all kinds of extra income from his husband to meet his needs. "


    Cao Li''s eyes wandered around: "Oh..."


    "Then there is..." He hesitated: "this is more sensitive, or not to say it?"


    "Say it, say it." Cao Li urged.


    Several other men also urged him: "ah - say..."


    It seems that everyone is very concerned about this last point.