The chairman''s aunt took a sip of coffee, then looked at Qiutong, pondered for a while, and said, "Qiutong, this year How old are you? "


    Qiutong then told her aunt her age. After hearing this, her eyelids jumped again and said, "Oh..."


    Qiu Tong''s reply seemed to make her aunt ponder again.


    The aunt seems to like to meditate.


    Then, my aunt looked at Qiutong and asked, "Qiutong, are your parents Korean?"


    My aunt really likes to ask about family customs. She is so like Chinese mothers. I feel that again.


    Hearing this, Qiu Tong was stunned.


    I knew that Qiu Tong didn''t know how to answer, so I took over the conversation and said, "Qiu Zong''s parents are all Xianzu, otherwise, how can Qiu Zong be Xianzu! This has to be... "


    Although Qiutong doesn''t know which nationality her parents belong to, I think that Qiutong''s parents should be of the Xian nationality. She was born in North Korea, and North Korea is a single nation country. There is no doubt that her parents are of the Xian nationality.


    My answer made my aunt and Jin Jingze laugh. My aunt nodded: "hehe, Yike is right, yes Qiu Tong, we are all compatriots of the same nation... "


    The chairman''s aunt agreed with my answer.


    "Yes, we are compatriots!" Qiu Tong seemed to be a little emotional, and then added: "although I am Chinese and my motherland is in China, we are indeed compatriots of a nation."


    The aunt nodded: "well You''re right Although we belong to two countries, we belong to a unified nation We have a common ancestor. "


    Qiu Tong smiles, looks at the chairman''s aunt and says, "aunt, you look so young It''s really young. "


    "Ha ha It just looks young, but it''s not young anymore. " My aunt laughs: "seeing you young people who are full of vigor and vitality, my aunt is really envious..."


    "Aunt is not only young, but also has outstanding ability. She is really the best among women for her successful career." Qiu Tong said: "on the way here just now, I heard president Jin talk about some ideas of my aunt. I was very educated and inspired."


    "Oh..." The chairman''s aunt looked at Jin Jingze with a smile: "what bad words did you say about your aunt again?"


    "Hey, hey What''s bad news, aunt? We''re talking about the essential qualities of successful women on the road. I''ll take you as an example and discuss it with Qiu tongyike. " Jin Jingze said with a smile.


    "Ha ha, my success is not worth mentioning." "My aunt said:" I see, if I change Qiutong, I can do better than me


    Qiu Tong laughed sheepishly: "Auntie, I can''t accept your words. How can I compare my ability with Auntie On the way here just now, president Jin and I discussed the essential qualities of successful women for a while. President Jin talked about some of his aunt''s views and ideas, which is really fruitful. Now when I see her, I really want to hear her opinions in person. "


    "Ha ha I can see that you are a good boy who is easy to learn! " The chairman''s aunt looked at Qiutong with kindness and affection.


    At a glance, we can see that this kindness and love comes from the heart and is very real.


    "It''s a rare opportunity. Since Qiu is always so studious, aunt, you might as well talk about it." Jin Jingze said.


    It seems that Kanazawa wants to hear it.


    It seems that Jin Jingze wants to show off his aunt in front of Qiutong and me.


    Of course, the composition of the latter seems to be very small.


    The chairman''s aunt pondered and said, "although modern society emphasizes equality between men and women, in fact, men are still the mainstream. Whether in politics or business, it is very difficult for women to accomplish something. What is the biggest capital for women to challenge men in modern society?"


    Everyone looked at each other and shook their heads.


    "What is it?" Qiu Tong said.


    "Professional quality!" The aunt replied.


    "Professional quality?" I said.


    "Yes, professional quality This is the biggest capital for women to challenge men. " Said the chairman''s aunt.


    "Why do you say that?" I said.


    The chairman''s aunt looked at me, and then at Qiutong, and said, "as women, they are meticulous, methodical and very serious. In addition, they have a pair of dexterous hands. These unique personalities are the advantages of women''s employment. But in the long-term male dominated workplace environment, women have to start from understanding the rules of men''s workplace games, and do things like men: put forward requirements directly, dare to express their views; take the initiative to win attention; accept challenges and risks at any time; don''t complain privately; actively cooperate with team work; try to be close to the core people Show humor and smile at any time In this way, you will find that many women who are not amazing can also gallop in the workplace where men are like clouds. "


    I couldn''t help nodding: "aunt chairman, do you think beautiful women are more likely to succeed in the workplace?"The chairman''s aunt pondered for a moment and did not directly answer my question. She said: "a company in Columbia in the United States has done such a research and found that beautiful women are easy to find office secretaries and other jobs, and the salary is not low. But it prevents them from entering a higher type of occupation. Because in addition to the actor, stewardess and other special industries require beautiful appearance, the appearance of all other industries should only be placed after education and ability.


    "Therefore, every woman has a natural feminine charm. As long as you deliberately play, be a loyal woman, implement five self-cultivation methods, and use seven strategies, you can quickly enter the list of success."


    "Oh What do you say? " I said.


    "Five self-cultivation: positive and enterprising, obedient; thousand hand Guanyin, loved by everyone; peace of the world, who else; core figures sit firmly in Mount Tai; simplify and protect themselves passively." My aunt said, "the seven strategies are self reflection, making friends, giving priority to positivity, self-expression, being good at accepting, understanding rights, and foresight."


    Qiu Tong looked at the chairman''s aunt and nodded: "well..."


    The chairman''s aunt continued: "in particular, in the contemporary society, there are a group of new professional women who make use of their own advantages - Miss market. They rely on their own efforts to fight for the future.


    "On the whole, Miss market generally has beautiful appearance, white-collar image and conversation, received good education and professional training, and has the hardworking and agile temperament of professional women, independent spirit and the consciousness of pursuing wealth. She is both elegant and modest.


    "For example, Miss sales in the real estate market, Miss guides in travel agencies, and so on. In addition, some of the details that determine women''s career success are also very important, such as having a sense of time, being proficient in business, not chatting during working hours, clean and tidy desks and beautiful clothes, etc., which need special attention. "


    "What my aunt said is very good. I''m a man who has learned a lot from it." I said.


    The chairman''s aunt said with a smile, "do you know the secret of women getting money?"


    "I don''t know." I laughed and shook my head.


    Qiu Tong looked at the chairman''s aunt: "what is it?"


    "Financial intelligence quality." The aunt replied, "only women with financial intelligence can get money In real life, women do have the advantage of doing business. Compared with men, women are more persistent. For example, in the same situation, it is difficult for women to change their views on a certain thing, while men, on the contrary, are easy to give up their original ideas. This shows that women are closer to the good qualities of modern entrepreneurs. Therefore, to make a fortune for a woman is to find a rule - that is to distinguish what she wants from what she needs


    "Today, when physical strength is no longer an important factor in entrepreneurship, we find that women are quietly entering the top of the global business world. Especially in the era of new economy characterized by Internet and new technology, women finally get as many opportunities as men. So, an era of rich women has come.


    "In this era, in order to become a rich woman, we must first break through the three obstacles of not having a clear idea of money, over believing in the influence of experts and limited ideas, and then we can become a rich woman of millions, tens of millions and hundreds of millions."


    At this point, the chairman''s aunt began to laugh.


    Everyone laughed. Qiu Tong said, "what my aunt said is quite right. It''s like this."


    At this time, I thought that the chairman''s aunt must be a billionaire, not in RMB or won, but in US dollars.


    After everyone finished laughing, the chairman''s aunt said, "if a woman wants to be a fish in water in business, she must also have certain social qualities Being good at dealing with interpersonal relationship is the real natural strength of women. Because the more men there are, the more important a woman''s communication skills are.


    "Female friends should be good at using your advantages in this area to build a successful interpersonal network - such as promoting themselves, helping others, often appearing in important occasions, etc. We should keep active contact with everyone in the network, especially in insurance, marketing, advertising, service, tourism, catering, entertainment and other industries.


    "Of course, you can''t always be a receiver in your communication with people. If you are just a receiver, no matter what the network is, you may be alienated. What''s more, in the process of communicating with people, we should pay special attention to the language art of the office. Being too frank and forthright is almost the same as being less resourceful. No white-collar woman will do this.


    "As a matter of fact, only one percent of the people in the crowd can keep secrets. When there is a personal crisis in your life, such as lovelorn, marriage and so on, you''d better not talk to anyone in the office, so as not to be known all over the world."


    It seems that there are similarities between Korean workplace and China. Either the chairman''s aunt has a good understanding of China''s national conditions and will speak specifically for China''s workplace.


    In this way, I can''t help thinking that the chairman''s aunt seems to be a China expert.


    Qiutong looks at the chairman''s aunt with admiration, and her eyes are bright.