"Oh That''s good. That''s good. " Mother was relieved.


    Dad frowned: "but there are always rumors about you and Qin Lu This kind of thing spreads in the unit, is very bad to you after all, is very disadvantageous to your personal image


    "My mouth is on people''s faces. If people want to say it, I can''t help it, but Qin Lu and I don''t care about it. If we talk about it again, we''ll be fine for a while." I said.


    "That is to say, you are actually under great psychological pressure in the unit, aren''t you?" Dad said.


    "Well..." I nodded, and then laughed: "but it''s OK, I will decompress myself, colleagues and leaders of the unit are very concerned about me."


    Dad was silent for a moment and sighed anxiously. Obviously, my words didn''t make him feel relaxed.


    Mother then said: "this time you, listen to Lao Li said, thanks to Qiu Tong ah, she operated a group of top reporters, the arrival of these reporters, your acquittal has played a huge role."


    I nodded: "yes, thanks to Qiutong."


    "That Qin Lu Is it really suicide? " Dad asked me again.


    I looked at my father and said, "yes, this is how the police come to a conclusion. Since they come to a conclusion, they must have their own reasons and basis."


    His mother said indignantly, "why don''t the police who handle the case come to this conclusion early, and you don''t have to go back and suffer, and your wedding with Haizhu won''t be like today The police It''s too bad. I have to wait for you after the wedding. How can I interrupt the wedding in front of everyone? It''s too inhuman


    "Not only that, but also in front of everyone, he said that you were related to Qin Lu''s death and that Qin Lu aborted your signature. Is this a deliberate disturbance? I think they handle cases on the one hand, and they deliberately make trouble on the other. "


    My mother''s words reminded me that maybe, there is such an element, maybe the police are really instructed to do so, in the name of handling a case, to completely break up the wedding ceremony, and to completely slander my reputation in front of everyone. This may be another incidental purpose of them besides handling a case.


    Who would have told them to? Obviously, in addition to ray, it was wood. Maybe it was their mutual inspiration.


    Thinking of these, my heart can''t help being a little cruel


    Dad said: "it''s useless to say these things now. It''s all in the past. Although their practice is not reasonable enough, they can''t find any responsibility or fault from other people''s work responsibilities and case handling procedures.


    "Flies don''t bite seamless. If Xiao Ke doesn''t have a handle to be caught by others, they don''t even have a chance to make trouble. Therefore, it''s useless to blame others. The key is to find the reason from themselves When things get to this point, it''s most important to reflect on yourself subjectively. "


    Dad''s words are also very reasonable, I can''t help but ponder and nod.


    Dad then said: "let''s not tangle over the past. Now, the top priority is how to deal with Xiaoke''s and Haizhu''s affairs, or how to deal with our family and Haizhu''s affairs.


    "In any case, Haizhu and Xiaoke are the legal husband and wife of dengji. In any case, Haizhu is also our daughter-in-law. Xiaoke is Haizhu''s son-in-law. This is an unchangeable fact and the starting point and thinking basis for us to deal with this matter."


    My mother also said, "yes, this is the most important thing for my parents at present. My parents can''t sleep well all day and have trouble sleeping and eating Your father and I went to Haizhu''s house the next day after we came back from Xinghai. We wanted to explain our apology to our in laws. We hope that we can sit down and discuss how to deal with this.


    "But my in laws didn''t even let me and your father in. They didn''t ask for the things they brought, which made me and your father gray headed and gray faced. As a result, after I came out, I was in a trance and absent-minded. When I got on the bus, I stepped empty and hurt my leg Alas It''s not the right time for me to hurt my leg. When do you say something''s wrong? I have to catch up with it


    "Now that you are back, it''s OK, mom can''t walk. I think you and your father should go again and let your father come to the door with you. We should make an apology, apologize and keep a low profile. First, we should strive for the understanding of our in laws and the forgiveness of Haizhu.


    "Anyway, Haizhu is also our passing daughter-in-law. Although the wedding was not successful, it was held. It''s been so many days since the wedding, and the daughter-in-law didn''t come in. What''s the matter? It''s going to make people laugh. "


    I said: "Dad, mom, you don''t have to worry about this. Mom, you can take good care of yourself. You don''t have to go, and dad doesn''t have to go. In the future, you don''t have to take care of this. You''ve done all the things that should be done. It''s our business if you don''t come to the door. It''s their business if they don''t shut the door. I''ll take responsibility for what I do and deal with it myself."


    Mother said: "child, you can''t say that. Who let you be our son? Parents should be responsible for the son''s accident. At least your father and I should bear the responsibility of lax discipline. If something like this happens, our family will lose face. Now we can''t consider it."Now the main consideration is Haizhu''s family. Considering the feelings of Haizhu and her parents, we are ashamed, and they will feel even more ashamed. These people are all supported by face, especially the older generation. Who doesn''t expect their children to win face for themselves


    "Therefore, we should fully understand the feelings of Haizhu''s family. When they don''t see us, your father and I don''t feel sorry or complain. When people are so embarrassed, it''s understandable to have emotions, and it''s necessary to get angry


    "We have to be reasonable in doing things. This time, no matter whether you have done those things or not, the reason is not on our side. In this case, we should sincerely compensate others, not apologize and explain, and strive for their understanding and forgiveness. If we can''t do it once, we can''t do it twice, we can''t do it twice, we can''t do it three times.


    "I think Haizhu''s parents are also reasonable people. As long as we are sincere, we will move them We take the initiative to come to the door, which can be regarded as saving some face for others. It''s more or less a compensation. "


    "Your mother is right. I think you will follow me to Haizhu''s house tomorrow." Dad said.


    I said, "Dad, mom, none of you need to go, neither do I


    "Why?" My parents looked at me in amazement.


    I said, "Haizhu left with her parents this morning."


    "Where have you been?" Mom said.


    "Haifeng arranged to take them to Australia It''s estimated that I won''t come back until after the Spring Festival at the earliest, "I said," as soon as I came back today, I went to their home first, but there was no one at home. I didn''t know until I asked. "


    "Ah Well, the in laws left with Haizhu, obviously trying to avoid us, deliberately avoiding us, obviously bothering to see us... " My mother seemed very sad: "my daughter-in-law left without even entering her mother-in-law''s house. What''s the matter?"


    "Mom, don''t think so. Maybe it''s reasonable for them to leave like this. Maybe they want to give them time and space for us to think calmly. At the same time, they want to leave here to avoid the public opinion pressure of those around them for a while, which has its advantages." I said: "if you don''t meet or contact for the time being, there will be a buffer stage of thinking. Cold treatment may be a good way to solve the problem."


    "Cold treatment This is called cold treatment? " Mother said absently: "so, Haizhu Spring Festival is not in her mother-in-law''s house, we have a saying here, not in her mother-in-law''s house will die mother-in-law Haizhu''s parents will not be unaware of this custom. "


    My heart sank when I heard my mother say this.


    Dad then said: "old lady, you believe in these crooked things. They are all superstitions. How can you believe in these things? Don''t talk nonsense. "


    My mother said weakly: "believe it or not is one thing. It''s another thing for Haizhu''s parents to know whether they know it or not. It''s another thing to let Haizhu come to our family for the new year Even though we have thousands of mistakes in our children, Haizhu is always our daughter-in-law. It''s not a good feeling that our daughter-in-law is not at home for the new year. "


    Although I don''t believe that my daughter-in-law will die when she is not at her mother-in-law''s home for the new year, I believe that this folk custom is important in her mother''s heart. She doesn''t have to worry about whether Haizhu can spend the new year at home, but she cares about the attitude of her parents and Haizhu''s heart.


    Dad said at this time: "what Xiao Ke analyzed just now may also be reasonable. If we don''t contact each other for the time being, they will leave ningzhou for the time being, which is also good for both sides to think calmly and avoid the limelight of gossip. There is a buffer and time and space for calm handling, which may be beneficial to the settlement of the matter


    "Since Haifeng has made such an arrangement, he must have his own consideration. Since his in laws are going to take Haizhu to Australia, they must have their own ideas. Whether Haifeng or his in laws, they must want to consider the direction that is conducive to solving the problem. They should not only consider the reality and future of Xiaoke and Haizhu, but also consider how to deal with them To cope with the pressure of public opinion around us, we should also consider how to have a decent step. We should really understand them.


    "Old lady, at this time, you should stop talking about the old superstitious custom that your daughter-in-law is not at her mother-in-law''s home for the new year. Not at home for the new year doesn''t mean Haizhu is not our daughter-in-law. Not spending the new year with Xiaoke doesn''t mean Haizhu is not Xiaoke''s daughter-in-law. You should see the essence of the problem and don''t haggle over these conventional problems It''s better


    "Well Old man, I don''t care about all this. You still don''t understand my mind... " Mother sighed, then looked at me with a gloomy look and stopped talking.