In many people''s eyes, it is just a joke for a woman like Yue Zitong to marry a dead ghost.
In addition to those ignorant girls who were moved by her love for a man, all normal people would scoff at it.
She thought that she was making a fuss: "a dead man is a handful of ashes, and there is no sense of bullshit. Even if you make the wedding the most luxurious wedding in the world, he will not climb out of the ashes box and lift your red cap
However, when the person in charge of the wedding ceremony is director Liang of the general office, and among those who come to attend the wedding are Jing Hongming of the supreme Security Bureau, Wang Yulin, the boss of the 13th military intelligence department, and Fusu, Qunxing, the two eldest sons of the third generation of the Helan family, the wedding, which is despised by the world, will become more solemn.
What''s more, the bride in this wedding ceremony is the eldest Miss Yue Zitong, who is the head of Jinghua''s Yue family?
If anyone dares to sneer at it.
Most of the men who knew the wedding would be jealous of the handful of ashes in the urn, and would like to burn themselves into ashes. They would lie in the crystal clear casket of white jade, and then be held in the arms of beauty Yue in her white wedding dress to feel the warmth of her arms.
Of course, they''re just so crooked.
If they really want to die, they will be burned to ashes. Let''s not say that they are held in the arms of beauty Yue. Even if they eat them into their mouths, they will not talk about it.
But they can be so crooked. Then they look at Yue Zitong and scold some dead ghost in their hearts. Those who have died in dunima compete with the living for excellent resources.
Yue Zitong, who was holding the urn, of course ignored those passers-by''s ideas. He just walked on the red carpet with a wooden look under the guidance of Zong gang.
Her dark hair was tied behind her head by a two inch wide white silk, hanging at her waist, swaying to and fro with the light wind, as if she had a life.
Because it''s a dead man''s marriage, no hotel will receive this kind of wedding. Although it only takes Zong Gang a phone call to solve this problem, Yue Zitong is very considerate of the public opinion. People who know how to do business generally taboo certain things.
So she arranged the wedding in a field in the suburb.
As early as a week ago, Zong Gang, who was in charge of preparing for the wedding, personally brought people here to repair a simple hotel by working overtime.
After the wedding, the hotel will be demolished immediately, everything will be removed, and not even a cigarette end will be left, as if nothing has happened.
The preparatory funds of this hotel are expensive. Only the red carpet from the roadside to the lobby is pure handmade wool carpet.
What''s more, Zong gang and others took a week to complete this temporary Hotel, which can only survive for half a day at most.
When the wedding is over, the guests will go back to their homes and find their mothers after a symbolic drink.
Then, Zong gang will immediately take people to tear down the hotel and use the truck parked in the distance to pull it to the place where the garbage is burned professionally and destroy it.
The temporary Hotel, worth several million yuan, takes only half a day in a week to be demolished. Not to mention, all the raw materials will be burned up. This is the waste of red fruit.
But who makes Yue Zitong rich?
People burn the things they bought with money. Who can manage it?
Who dares to control!
It is said that the location of this temporary hotel was specially visited by the eminent monk Zong gang.
Only by building a hotel on this gentle slope more than 10 meters above sea level can the bridegroom feel the bride''s love for him there - can he close his eyes with satisfaction, and then be chained around his neck by the imp, like a donkey, and walk into Fengdu city. After being beaten by frying and whipping, he will be beaten into 18 layers of hell, and he will never be able to turn over.
This is to guard against the death of the bridegroom, who covets the bride''s beauty and charming body. The bridegroom, unable to resist his impetuous heart, sneaks out to attach himself to a man and harass the bride when the ghost door is closed.
Otherwise, it is the endless dream for the bride every night, crying that I love you, please come and accompany me quickly.
As a result, the bride''s spirit was rapidly weakened, and she was sickly all day. Soon she would die and be taken away by the bridegroom.
Therefore, in order to ensure the absolute safety of the bride, Zonggang must invite eminent monks to choose a place of geomantic omen to be the wedding site.
This wedding ceremony is the Yin marriage in the folklore.
Yin marriage, also known as ghost marriage.
Generally speaking, the objects of marriage in Yin marriage are mostly children who have died or died before engagement. Parents want to marry them out of affection.
Yin marriage is divided into the dead and the dead, the dead and the living.
According to the ancient legend, there is a solitary tomb in the ancestral tomb, which will affect the prosperity of future generations. Therefore, it is necessary to hold a Yin marriage for the deceased.
Yin marriage often appears in the aristocracy or rich families, but it is rarely carried out in poor families.
As for the date of Yin marriage, it is impossible to find out, but it is certain that it existed as early as the Han Dynasty.However, due to the human and material resources consumed by the society, it is meaningless and has been banned.
Zhou Li once said, "it is forbidden to move and bury and marry the wounded."
However, this kind of ethos has never been stopped, and even some of them are directly reflected in the rulers.
The prevalence of Yin marriage was in the Song Dynasty.
According to Kang Yu''s "yesterday''s dream record", when an unmarried man or woman dies, his or her parents must ask a ghost matchmaker to talk to each other, and then carry out divination. After getting the permission to marry, they make the ghost clothes for each other, hold a wedding ceremony, and bury the male and female together with their bones.
However, there has never been a set rule for the holding of a secret marriage.
Although Yin marriage is regarded as a wedding ceremony, it is inevitable that red and white ceremonies are mixed and interlaced.
To a large extent, it depends on the party''s opinion, so the form of Yin wedding ceremony varies greatly.
One thing is the same as the normal wedding. The Yin marriage also needs to be introduced by the matchmaker. The two parties go through the door to get married and get the dragon and Phoenix tie.
Half of the gifts sent by the man to the woman were silk and satin ruler heads, gold and silver treasures, and half of them were paper pasted four seasons clothes, two pairs of brocade boxes, and jewelry such as earrings.
It''s called setting.
On the night of the release, it was burned in front of the woman''s house or on her grave.
During the communication, the "goose cage", "wine sea", dragon and Phoenix wedding cakes, elbows and fruits sent by the man to the woman are all real, but clothes and jewelry are made of paper.
The dowry sent by the woman is usually paper work. After it is sent to the man, it is only displayed for half a day in front of the photo or tablet of the "groom". Some of the dowry is only carried around the man''s courtyard for a week, that is, the drum music leader is sent to the nearby square for incineration.
Of course, Yin marriage does not necessarily have the above ceremony, but the wedding ceremony is indispensable.
It is a day to build a shed, feast relatives and friends, light sedan in front of the door.
In the wedding room, "Baifen" is worshipped. On the opposite Kang, a low table is set up for the photo or tablet of the "groom". In front of the table, there are several plates of apple, dragon and Phoenix wedding cake, and a big red flower, with the words "bridegroom" written on it.
In the "boudoir" of the woman, the photo or tablet of "bride" is also provided as before. There is a big red flower with a ribbon under it, and the word "bride" is written on it.
After the sedan chair arrives at the woman''s side, the bride''s photo or tablet will be taken down by the bride''s wife, and the bride''s sedan chair will be released.
At this time, the father and mother of the bride could not help but howl and chase out of the house.
After returning to the man''s side, the bride''s photo or tablet should be taken out and placed on the offering table on the Kang of the Xi room, juxtaposed with the groom. And tied up the two photos with a red head rope, taking the meaning of Yuelao''s drawing a red thread, and overlaid with red and yellow colored silk.
Only married wife to the whole God "Baifen" incense kowtow, even if the husband and wife worship heaven and earth.
Then, the teahouse will bring the "cup of wine" and other things for the wedding couple before the photos or tablets.
After holding the above ceremony, find a good day for burial, and the woman can be spirited.
Mr. Sun, the apple will be thrown out of the pit after two hours.
At the same time, Gao Gao raised the red paper money.
The man dug a hole at the side of the grave to reveal the trough side of the "bridegroom" coffin, and buried the "bride" in this cave for the "husband and wife" joint burial.
Before the funeral of money and fruit, the paper wine ceremony was held.
The father and mother of both men and women cried and said "great joy".
Since then, men and women can be treated as relatives.
A famous ghost marriage in history was organized by Cao Cao for his son Cao Chong.
According to the records of the Three Kingdoms, Cao Chong, the son of Cao Cao, was ill in the 13th year of Jian''an, and Taizu asked for his order. I''m sorry for my death. Emperor Wen said, "this is my misfortune, but you Cao''s good fortune." In order to hire Zhen''s deceased daughter and bury him together, he presented the riding Duwei''s seal ribbon, and ordered the Marquis wan to serve the empress according to Zi Cong. "
Here, Cao Cao hired a woman named Zhen who died early as his daughter-in-law.
The most famous example of modern shady marriage is South Korea. So, four years after the death of a female star, her mother always wanted to comfort her single dead daughter, so she arranged for her to "marry" and hold a ghost marriage ceremony with an outsider.
On the scene, the star mother, holding the portrait of her beloved daughter, cried into tears. The monks held a wedding ceremony for a couple of "new people", and the participants were solemn.
The master of the Yue family, who wants to marry Li Yingxiong, who died for his country, will not follow these secular rules.
What''s more, Li Nanfang seems to have no parents. Even if Yue Zitong wants to hire a book, he doesn''t have a place.
She actually let Zong Gang ask to see Jing Hongming.
Jing Hongming regards Li Nanfang as a parent, son and nephew to protect his lover. It is no longer a secret in this circle.
Therefore, Yue Zitong wants to "entrust" Jing Hong and his wife to be Li NanFang''s "reborn parents" and marry him.
As a result, she was smashed out with a feather duster.
More impolitely reprimand way: "go back to tell your householder, say Jinghong family can''t afford their home!"Why is Mrs. Jinghong so angry?
A fool can see that Yue Zitong wants to tie Jing Hong''s life to the chariot of Yue''s family with a meaningless marriage, thus contributing greatly to her family.
Originally, Jing Hongming''s husband and wife despised Yue Zi Tong''s behavior of squeezing Li Nan Nan Nan''s last trace of value for the sake of his family''s interests. Now they come to get married innocently. This intelligence quotient is too high to say.
This wishful thinking is even more crackling.
It''s a pity that Jinghong doesn''t like her.
She knows where Li NanFang''s teacher''s mother is, and she knows that elder sister is the most qualified person to be a mother for Li Nanfang, but she dare not go.
Yue Zitong is really afraid that the person she sent to propose marriage there will be directly killed by the angry elder sister. By the way, when the fertilizer is buried in the ground, the cherry is red and the banana is green.
Under helpless, she had no choice but to be a bride and a mother at the suggestion of Master Kong to host the wedding.
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