We did it once.


    After finishing, we separated, Haizhu pinched my nose: "brother Are you hungry? "


    I sat up and stretched, "what do you think?"


    "I said you were hungry I''ve cooked the meal Just waiting for you to wake up and eat Hee hee... " Haizhu sat next to me, took my arm, and put her head on my shoulder: "ah - what a solid shoulder This is my support. "


    Haizhu and I had dinner together. When we had dinner, I asked Haizhu, "when will we leave?"


    "I don''t want to leave any time!" Haizhu gave me a witty reply while he was filling me with vegetables.


    I smile: "good answer!"


    "Yes," Haizhu said with a smile, "tomorrow morning!"


    "Well I''ll take you to the airport tomorrow. " I said.


    "Well..." Haizhu nodded: "ah - brother, you said, we just got married, we are going to be separated immediately, I really hate you..."


    I couldn''t help laughing: "what a newlyweds."


    "It''s a newly married girl, but I think so Today is the most meaningful and memorable day of my life. " Haizhu said, "honey, I don''t want to leave you. What should I do?"


    I said: "silly girl, it''s not that we don''t meet again."


    When I said this, I couldn''t help sighing again in my heart. It was a little painful.


    After dinner, Haizhu and I went out for a walk by the sea. After a short walk by the sea, we met Qiutong, who was taking Xiaoxue to pick up shells by the sea.


    See me and Haizhu together, see Haizhu is intimately holding my arm, Qiutong stunned, open eyes looking at us.


    Haizhu and I went to Qiutong Xiaoxue. When Xiaoxue saw us, she happily raised the shell she picked up and showed off to us: "uncle, aunt, look at the beautiful shell my mother and I picked up."


    Haizhu let go of my arm, bent down, kiss Xiaoxue''s face: "good, baby, it''s so beautiful!"


    I also said: "it''s beautiful -"


    "I''ll continue to pick up more beautiful ones." Xiaoxue smiles and starts to pick up shells nearby.


    At this time, Qiu Tong''s face was still surprised, looking at Haizhu and me: "Hello, you two, what''s the matter? I''ve been fooled by you. "


    Looking at Qiutong, my heart suddenly felt very guilty, as if I had done something shameful to Qiutong, my heart was full of shame.


    I opened my mouth, but I didn''t say a word. I turned my head and looked at the sea in the distance. Suddenly, I felt a sense of loss and melancholy


    Haizhu said: "sister Qiu, you must know that sister Dong''Er left my brother. I know that you and my brother have done a lot of work to get her back, but she insists on not coming back. Since she doesn''t come back, I will go back! Because sister Dong''Er is my brother''s first love, because my brother has always been nostalgic for sister Dong''Er, so at the beginning, I took the initiative to quit and set them up


    "However, my withdrawal at that time was against my will and painful. You must know my feelings for my brother Now, since Donger doesn''t cherish my brother and refuses to come back, I''ll come back. I''ve given Donger a chance. I''ve done what I should do. Now, I decide not to give up or shrink back. I want to start our new life with my brother. "


    "Oh..." Qiutong seems to understand Haizhu''s words, but it still seems difficult to accept the sudden change. Looking at Haizhu and me, she said to herself, "this is a change, a lantern..."


    "Ha ha, it''s not a horse lantern. At the beginning, my exit was correct, but now my return is inevitable. It seems absurd that I go in and out. In fact, I feel that I have completed a basic principle of being a man and doing things, and I have no shame in my heart." Haizhu said: "sister Donger has her own pursuit and life goal. Now she is not the same person as my brother. Since she is not the same person, why do she have to be together? Between my brother and sister Dong''Er, I don''t think who is right or wrong. It''s just that people have different understanding and views on love, life and things. They have different ways and don''t conspire with each other. In this way, separation is not necessarily a bad thing. "


    Qiu Tong bowed his head and pondered for a while, looking at me: "this Yike really has a woman''s fate. After walking one by one, it seems that he has never broken his red confidant. Ah - Haizhu, Yike, now I really don''t know whether I should congratulate you or feel lost for Donger''s leaving I''m talking from the bottom of my heart. Don''t be surprised if you listen to me... "


    "Elder sister Qiu, let it be. You don''t have to force it. My brother and I are like this. My brother and Donger are like this. So are you. I didn''t ask you to congratulate me..." Haizhu said, "just, I want you to know that I''m back to my brother."


    Qiutong turned and looked at the boundless sea. After a long silence, she said, "I just want to, I want to wish all the lovers in the world All lovers will get married, whether they are together or not, whether they are in the same space or not, whether they are in reality or in fantasy. "


    Qiutong''s words shocked my heart. She seemed to be talking about Haizhu and Donger, herself and the guests in the airThen Qiutong turned to Haizhu and looked at me and laughed: "Haizhu, you are my good sister, Donger is also my good sister, Yike is my good friend, good colleague, for the things between you, I don''t make evaluation, I just want to say, I hope you all can find your own destination, find your own happiness, and be happy


    "Yike, I also hope you can respect your every relationship, be careful with every girl around you. For a man, I think responsibility comes first."


    Qiutong''s words kept beating my weak and weak heart, I was speechless.


    Seeing my appearance, Qiu Tong said with a smile: "I''m sorry, I might have been a little heavy Ha ha I hope not. "


    Haizhu said: "sister Qiu, if you think too much, my brother won''t be surprised. Of course, I won''t be surprised. I understand what you said just now. In fact, I also know that I have a deep understanding that women are often the most injured party on the emotional road


    "Since I left on my own initiative and now I come back on my own initiative, only I know the mental journey, the pain and suffering, the suffering and suffering."


    In the afternoon, the sun was warm, the sea breeze was cool and salty. I suddenly felt that I was going to lose my sense of taste.


    We are all sitting on the beach, Xiaoxue is running around laughing, picking up shells, and running to show our achievements from time to time.


    I sit in the middle, Haizhu on the left and Qiutong on the right.


    "Haizhu, just now you said that on the emotional Road, women are often the most injured Why do you say that? Don''t men get hurt? " I suddenly thought of this question and asked Haizhu.


    Haizhu looked at me and laughed: "brother, I ask you, as a man, do you have such a time: that is, the view of things is often abstract thinking, such as love, when you are in love, your experience is only concentrated in this specific stage, with the passage of time, your feeling will fade naturally, even if you love me before Because if you have tried, you will realistically accept that you have completed this mission, which will make you feel like you have achieved great success. Then the inevitable trend is that your energy will be transferred to other areas. "


    I pondered for a long time, in the heart some far fetched, said: "I do not know."


    "You don''t know, that''s it!" Haizhu stroked her hair: "but, brother, do you know that women are on the contrary, and their perception of things is universal thinking, or take love as an example, most women will be very serious, very persistent to extend all the perception of love to every corner of life, women are best at performing tragicomedy for love, regardless of the future and destiny, and the final conclusion The result is often sacrifice and hurt at the same time


    I turned and looked at Haizhu. Haizhu looked very serious.


    "Once a woman falls in love with a man, no matter whether he is a gentleman or a rogue, she will not care about the demeanor or unbearable manner of the man in other people''s eyes. In the eyes of a woman, everything is bright and magnificent. A woman''s concentration on love and infatuation are the most undesirable Achilles'' heel. She will even abandon her future, fame and status regardless of the consequences and just pursue her future The loyalty of love is withering, so the higher the expectation, the heavier the disappointment. When reality and fantasy can never cross, invisible harm is everywhere. " Haizhu looked at the distant sea and murmured.


    I seem to think that this is Haizhu''s confession to my heart, and it seems that she is pouring out her true feelings and her perception of love.


    I can''t help but agree with Haizhu.


    This is true in reality. In real life, men and women who are in love are often like this. When a woman falls in love with a man, she will take him as the absolute focus of life. Her mind is full of this man and revolves around him all day. She doesn''t ask for anything and doesn''t ask for anything in return. It seems that this man is the whole of life. She will hold this man firmly, but it''s not good for other men around her I''ll take a look at it.


    It seems that women are born to pay for life, as a wife, as a mother, to have children, to manage the housework, round and round, endless. Men like to say I love you in bed, but women always say I love you to men after going to bed.


    In bed, love or not, men will allow women sweet words, and women say I love you that must come from the true feelings of the heart, has nothing to do with not go to bed, this is the biggest difference between men and women in the treatment of love, this may be the characteristics of men.


    A woman superficially likes a man who can make her laugh, but what she really loves in her heart is a man who can make her cry.


    Haizhu continued: "from love, marriage, family, women''s ubiquitous dedication to themselves, people who disagree with them may not have experienced it, and people who agree with them have deep feelings even if they don''t say it. On the other hand, even if a man falls in love with a woman, he can''t completely exclude other women around him. Sometimes he can''t help looking sideways, but it doesn''t mean that he betrays his love.


    "Therefore, once one day when love declines, men will quickly accept the unexpected love and reality, while women are often too focused on love to make preparations for peace, so it is difficult to extricate themselves."