"Everyone has his own heaven Xiaoyi, do you have any? " Jin Jingxiu said.
"Well..." I nodded, I couldn''t help thinking of the paradise that Yeke and floating life had imagined together. It seems that this heaven will never be reached.
"Where is heaven in your mind?" Jin Jingxiu said.
"In In a world I can''t see. " I''m a little frustrated.
Jin Jingxiu shook her head gently: "wrong Here it is. "
Then she pointed to her heart: "everyone''s heaven is in his heart, that is to say, everyone''s heaven is himself If you want to conquer everything, you must conquer yourself first. Conquering yourself means conquering heaven Have you heard the song "conquer heaven"
I nodded: "yes, 1492 conquers heaven, magnificent, magnificent There is a Chinese TV series "soldiers assault", which also uses the music as the theme
Jin Jingxiu nodded: "well, do you know the original lyrics of conquering heaven?"
I shook my head: "I don''t know."
"The lyrics are actually very simple, very short, and can be regarded as a poem." Jin Jingxiu said: "the ideal makes us strong and break through the obstruction of darkness; the ideal makes us strong and never give up hope; after stealing tears, we can see the twinkling stars; through the wind and rain, we can follow the light of life."
Listening to Jin Jingxiu''s words, I seem to see how she overcame the pain and tribulation step by step for so many years. I can''t help but increase my respect for her.
"I want to conquer everything, I want to conquer heaven, but how can I conquer myself?" I murmured.
Jin Jingxiu said: "everyone is a wild horse and wants to make a world for himself. Some choose to be tamed, while others choose to conquer themselves. Of course, the results are quite different. The former will only become a machine that can only work step by step, while the latter will become a great man that attracts worldwide attention. The difference in life lies in your attitude, which determines the height of your life. "
I watched Jin Jingxiu intently.
"To conquer yourself is to conquer your heart." Jin Jingxiu said: "in the workplace, in the face of every new job, you may feel more busy, inferior and helpless than ever before. At this time, the heart will determine our life. If you choose to finish the work passively, complain that you have not found a good job, or feel that you are overqualified, complain about God''s injustice, complain about fate. Maybe I''ll be fired soon. I can''t do such a simple job well. What else can I hope to find a better one?
"On the contrary, if you conquer it when you are confused, put yourself into this job, turn passivity into initiative, turn boss''s asking me to do it, turn complaint into smile. I believe that as long as I do it seriously, nothing is impossible. A famous person once said: everyone can succeed in the work he loves infinitely We are small, we can''t change society, and we are great, because we can change ourselves. "
I couldn''t help nodding.
"Conquering oneself can conquer others, conquering others can create value for one''s life, creating value for one''s life is not in vain, one can come to this world, the probability that one can come to the world is small and small, so cherish one''s life, start from cherishing the people and things around one''s side." Jin Jingxiu looked at me meaningfully.
"Auntie king, that''s very kind of you." I say from the bottom of my heart, at this time, Jin Jingxiu in front of me is no longer the Cinderella who was abandoned by Lao Li, but a Fengyun businesswoman from Bangzi country, an entrepreneur of a multinational company and a successful woman.
"Xiaoyi, let me share these words with you." Jin Jingxiu said.
"I don''t dare to encourage you. I think it''s aunt Jin who taught me..." I said.
"Ha ha..." Jin Jingxiu laughed generously: "just now, I was talking about the workplace. In fact, whether it''s work or life, whether it''s friendship or love, if you want to succeed, you need to conquer yourself and your heart first. Of course, my views are also because of experience."
Said, Jin Jingxiu''s eyes can not help but some dissociation, eyes some loss.
"Auntie king, you Why do you live alone now? " I burst out a sentence.
Jin Jingxiu looked at me: "listen to Jingze?"
I nodded and felt that my question was impolite. It was a matter of personal privacy. How can I ask? But I couldn''t take it back. So I asked, "aunt Jin, have you never met love for so many years?"
Jin Jingxiu didn''t answer me immediately. He was silent for a long time and said, "love is a matter of preferring lack to extravagance. If you have love, you will treat it wholeheartedly. If you don''t have love, you will be happy. Learn to live by yourself, no matter whether you are loved or not. Do what you should do well, and treat it safely with or without love. When fate comes, we will reach out and grasp it. Before fate comes, we will live a wonderful life. It''s not just fate that makes life wonderful; it''s life that attracts fate. "With that, Jin Jingxiu looked at me: "are you satisfied with my answer?"
"Satisfied." I nodded and then asked Jin Jingxiu, "aunt Jin, do you believe Zeng Nuo in love?"
"Commitment?" Jin Jingxiu pondered for a while, looked at me and suddenly laughed and said, "promise, sometimes, is what a liar says to a fool. Don''t hurt your heart for the wrong person. Whether there is love or not, we should try our best to be a lovely person. Don''t blame who, don''t laugh at who, also don''t envy who. Bright in the sun, running in the wind and rain, do your own dream, go your own way
I couldn''t help laughing.
After a while, Jin Jingxiu looked out of the window again, staring at the place where Lao Li disappeared in a daze. After a while, he muttered to himself, "you Never let me follow, I I never insisted on You have your persistence, I have my persistence, you have your pursuit, I have my vision, you have your face, I have my dignity, you have your story, I have my experience, you have your direction, I have my dream
"If you don''t look back, why don''t you forget Since there is no chance, why take an oath. So, you, it''s your business to leave; I, it''s my business to stay. I thought I would never meet again The world has been crazy, perhaps, no one has the right to say sad
With these words, Jin Jingxiu was silent, always silent
After listening to Jin Jingxiu''s words, my heart trembled
After a while, Jin Jingxiu opened the door and got off the car.
I got out of the car and moved my body.
Jin Jingxiu walked around slowly. He came to the place where Lao Li just stood in a daze. He stopped and looked at the sea in the distance. Then he looked up at the sky
I stood by in silence.
At this time, Qiu Tong came in a hurry.
"Ha ha, here I am." Qiu Tong said with a smile.
Jin Jingxiu looked at Qiutong and said with a smile, "did Jingze take over with them?"
"Yes There are people waiting downstairs. " Qiu Tong said.
"It''s a good thing I didn''t go, otherwise I would not be able to leave for a while and a half." Jin Jingxiu said.
I said in my heart, if you go, I''m afraid you won''t meet Lao Li here.
I don''t know whether she is lucky or unfortunate for this.
"Did aunt Jin visit Xinghai Square just now?" Qiu Tong said.
"Well Just now Xiaoyi accompanied me here for a long time. " Jin Jingxiu said.
"Oh Let''s go to other places. There are still some places worth visiting in Xinghai. Let''s go to Binhai Avenue first, and then go to golden beach. " Qiu Tong said.
I nodded.
Jin Jingxiu did not speak for a moment, looking at me and Qiutong.
"Auntie king, do you think this arrangement is possible?" I said.
Jin Jingxiu said softly, "I want to visit Dandong Is it convenient for you? "
"Dandong?" I was stunned, looked at Qiutong, Qiutong also slightly stunned, then said: "no problem, where Aunt Jin wants to go, we are willing to accompany, we are the weekend these two days."
"Well, let''s go to Dandong." Jin Jingxiu''s tone is very straightforward.
"Now?" I said.
"Yes." Jin Jingxiu said.
"Well, let''s go now." I said.
So we got on the bus, Qiu Tong and Jin Jingxiu sat in the back row together, and I continued to drive.
I drove through Binhai Avenue, through the Development Zone, on the highway to Dandong
"Aunt Jin, did you have a good time in Xinghai Square just now?" Qiu Tong asks Jin Jingxiu.
"Ha ha Happy, very happy. " Jin Jingxiu said.
"Oh, ha ha..." Qiutong laughs.
Jin Jingxiu and Qiu Tong chatted casually. I listened to their conversation while driving.
After a while, Jin Jingxiu stopped talking. I saw from the rearview mirror that she was closing her eyes. She seemed a little tired and wanted to have a rest.
Qiu Tong sat aside, looking at Jin Jingxiu for a while, and then looking out of the window.
"Autumn trees." I call her.
"Well..." She agreed softly.
"I''m sure I''ll stay in Dandong tonight You go to a hotel and book a room first. " I said.
"Well, good." Qiu Tong said while touching the mobile phone: "then book the Yalu River Hotel, next to the Yalu River."
"Yes." I said, "book three rooms, two single rooms for us and one suite for Aunt Kim."
I think so. Jin Jingxiu is a big boss and a foreign guest. Of course, we need a suite when staying in a hotel. We can''t wait for the guests.
"All right." Qiu Tong said.
"Don''t be extravagant." At this time, Jin Jingxiu suddenly opened her eyes and said, "I think it''s OK to book two rooms, one single room for Xiaoyi, and the other room for a big bed room. Qiutong and I can live together Don''t book any suites. It''s too wasteful. "
"This..." Qiutong hesitated for a moment."That''s not right, aunt Jin. You''re a guest or a foreign guest." I said.
"There''s nothing wrong with it. I know what you think. I''m not so delicate. I think I worked hard at that time. I had it when I didn''t have a place to live on the street. What kind of hardship did you have? Do you care about it? Besides, I live with Qiutong, so it''s convenient to chat at night. " Jin Jingxiu said.
"Well This... " I said.
"Well, this..." Qiutong still hesitated.
"What? Qiu Tong, don''t you want to live with your aunt at night? Don''t you want to chat with your aunt? " Jin Jingxiu said, looking at Qiutong with a smile.
"No Of course I would. " Qiu Tong said: "it''s just..."
"Just what? Don''t treat me as a guest or an outsider, but as a good friend. " "Otherwise, I would feel out of touch," Jin said
"Since aunt Jin says so, listen to her." I said.
"Ha ha, OK." Autumn Tong also said with a smile.
Listen to autumn Tong tone, she seems very happy.
I know she definitely wants to live with Jin Jingxiu and have a heart to heart talk with her.